Thursday, January 4, 2007
Who does she think she is?
She goes all over the www claiming a lying and offering figments of her imagination as truth. But when some questions her authenticity she gets offended. The nerve of the troll! The president gets talked about 24/7 and he does not demand retractions or deletions. Who does she think she is? When you hit a search engine about David Ruffin...there her uglee ass picture and book is. Who does she think she is? Anytime his name is mentioned, there she is. Who does she think she is? She needs to take a good look in the mirror, she just might discover who she really is. A washed up old hag trying to live her fantasies thru a dead man's image. Who is she really?
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«Oldest ‹Older 1401 – 1415 of 1415In that order, oyea take that "no making sense, no spelling, bunch of lies, mixed up book offline and if its in the stores burn it..you fake wanna be
she was totally obsessed with this man
he didnt love her he didnt want her or
her son
that's exactly what it was she was there for him whenever he wanted he turned her inside out and she went nuts
maybe it was the real father of her son
she is a total nut case in a reply she
stated david kept her hidden and they
had an on and off relationship from 1964-1974! he used her I will never believe he love this stalker.
I wish I had knew about genna would not have supported him like I did!
that's not david ruffins son I bet he isnt both of them are frauds! all they
want are the profits
I thought Mr.Ruffin was Married to Sandra Ruffin Who's this Person???? And he was Married to Joy Hamilton. She must be claiming Common law. He never Legally Married her. I wonder Why??? Huh.
Geena says Tammi Terrell tried to attack her,when she learned of David getting Geena pregnant. I was wondering how did Tammi and Davids wife Sandra get along? Did Tammi fight Sandra as well because he was married to her and they had kids?
I read Ms Sapia's book and I would like to add a few comments to this discussion
1. Did Genna love DR? Absolutely albeit there was an obsessive/addictive component to it, as well. Having said that, writing a tell-all book replete with airing out someone's dirty linens is not a very loving thing to do. When you truly love someone, this is not the sort of thing one does. In fact, it is very disrespectful to the person being written about esp when he is not even here to defend himself. It is not a loving act. Some matters in life should be kept private esp when you say you love that person about whom you are writing.
2. David Ruffin was not monogamous - period. Many people, particularly men, are not. So be it. It is just the way life is. Each of his relationships served some need for him and each had some measure of value for him. This sort of thing should not be a competition i.e. "Who did David love the most?" i.e. "It was me! No! No! it was ME!!!!.....etc." The truth is that it was all of them and it was none of them. Each relationship had a purpose in his life and that purpose was known only to him. If having a monogamous life-long relationship with a man is a goal for someone, DR is not a good candidate. He could not offer that type of relationship to anyone. If that is what you want (and Genna did want that), you need to choose someone else. DR did not have that commodity to offer - not to her and not to anyone. He can't give to someone that which he does not have to offer.
3. Every person needs to pull his or her own weight in life. One cannot depend on someone else or even society at large ("welfare") to "take care of" you. The lifestyle described in the book, particularly when she was raising her son, was not a very good one and it was replete with dependency. Ms Sapia had more than enough brains to let go of this kind of dependency and make it on her own i.e. make a solid life for herself and her child. Waiting on DR to take care of her and/or hoping he would do so is simply not the way to go. Genna needed to take care of business, herself, and make her own life as well as a quality life for her child. She did not do that during the 10 years she was with DR.
4. Staying with a man who is manifesting the magnitude of abuse she describes in her book is just plain enabling. It is not love. It is weakness and addiction and it is also a means to foster another person to destroy himself.
5. "Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone." Let's give Genna a break, already. Who has not made his share of mistakes in life? I think everyone has beat up on her quite enough. I say "enough, already!" Can we show a little compassion and charity toward a fellow traveler on this planet? We ALL screw up at one time or another.
David Ruffin was an incredible singer but he was a womanizer and abuser. Why demonize her when David’s life and choices speak for themselves.
David Ruffin was a talent but he was a womanizer. Why demonize this lady and idolize him saying nothing about his flaws and shortcomings. He was not God.
David Ruffin disrespected his family. David Ruffin who was married, committed adultry.
That’s not a true statement. There are thousands of women that take the name of their abuser.
If he committed adultry did he love his family? It is disturbing that she is the focus and not David’s behavior.
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